註解參考文獻與延伸閱讀
[1]研究顯示，先生的收入比較低的確會增加離婚的風險，家中的存款以及小孩的有無也跟離婚有關。所以說穿了，愛情真的不能夠拿來當飯吃，錢跟小孩還是得要考慮進去。Weiss, Y., & Willis, R. J. (1997). Match quality, new information, and marital dissolution. Journal of Labor Economics, 15(1, Part 2), S293-S329.
[2]Wesner, K. A. (2008). Social comparison of romantic relationships: The influence of family, friends, and media.
[3]研究顯示，人格特質比較焦慮、過分敏感神經質的人，在感情當中容易會有這樣子「和伴侶比較」的狀況。詳細請參考Krizan, Z., & Bushman, B. J. (2011). Better than my loved ones: Social comparison tendencies among narcissists. Personality and Individual Differences, 50(2), 212-216.不過，當你把自己跟伴侶看成是「一體」的時候，這種威脅感也會降低。詳細請參考Gardner, W. L., Gabriel, S., & Hochschild, L. (2002). When you and I are” we,” you are not threatening: the role of self-expansion in social comparison. Journal of personality and social psychology, 82(2), 239.
[4]例如，憂鬱或低自尊的人經常會有這樣子的思考模式，因為和他的自我價值感比較符合。Orth, U., & Robins, R. W. (2013). Understanding the link between low self-esteem and depression. Current directions in psychological science, 22(6), 455-460.
