4. 探索不同角度的想法
我們應該敞開心胸，避免固執己見。不要在意為什麼他們會這麼的做，或是為什麼他們的想法不一樣？我們每一個人都是獨一無二的個體，各有特色。
5. Active listener
There is this simple rule that if you want someone to respect you，you should listen to what they say. People like to be listened to; it shows people that there are caring people in the world who would actually take the time to listen to them. Don’t talk about people; talk to people.
5. 主動的傾聽者
有一個基本的準則: 如果你想要別人尊重你，你就應該先傾聽他們說話。每個人都希望有人能聽他們說話。他們會因為你撥出時間傾聽他們說話而感到被關懷和重視。不要談論人們，要真正和人們對談。
Humans are emotional animals，so in difficult times，why not pay some attention to the people around you? Helping one another can patch up those holes in society.
人類是情緒的動物，所以當遇到困境的時候，稍微重視一下身邊的人，彼此幫忙才能彌補社會上的漏洞。
口語詞彙
1. (Stand) in someone’s shoes 從另一個角度看, 感受別人的感覺
Stand in someone’s shoes. Stand 可以省略。I wouldn’t like to be in her shoes. 我不希望了解她的感受。也可以用Put oneself in someone’s shoes. 都有從不同角度看事情的意思。
If you could just put yourself in Tom’s shoes for a moment，perhaps you would understand why it is not as easy as you seem to think. 如果你可以試著從湯姆的角度看，或許你就會了解事情不像你以為的簡單。
2. Go a long way 足夠的, 有幫助的; 成功的
Thank you for your generous donation. I am sure it will go a long way. 謝謝你的慷慨捐贈. 我敢肯定這將很有幫助。
All parents hope that their children will go a long way in their lives.所有父母都希望自己的孩子會很成功。
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